Tuesday, 10 November 2015

The word "FEAR" appears 63 times in the AA Big Book and the AA 12 Steps and 12 Traditions


The word "FEAR" appears 63 times in the AA Big Book and the AA 12 Steps and 12 Traditions


1.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear).   BB How It Works, p.65  


2.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear).   BB How It Works, p.65  


3.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear).   BB How It Works, p.65  


4.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear).   BB How It Works, p.65  


5.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear).   BB How It Works, p.65  
My wife -- misunderstands and nags; likes Brown; wants the house put in her name -- pride; personal sex relations; security (fear).


6.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear.   BB How It Works, p.68  
At once, we commence to outgrow fear.


7.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... fear.   BB Into Action, p.84  


8.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... fear.   BB To Wives, p.104  
We have had long rendezvous with hurt pride, frustration, self-pity, misunderstanding and fear.


9.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... fear.   BB To Wives, p.116  
There is another paralyzing fear.


10.
View TO EMPLOYERS chapter   ... fear.   BB To Employers, p.145  
The greatest enemies of us alcoholics are resentment, jealousy, envy, frustration, and fear.


11.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... "Fear."   12&12 Step Twelve, p.123  
So false pride became the reverse side of that ruinous coin marked "Fear."

View TRADITION THREE essay   ... fear.   12&12 Tradition Three, p.140  
If all those rules had been in effect everywhere, nobody could have possibly joined A.A. at all, so great was the sum of our anxiety and fear.


13.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear, a soul-sickness in its own right.   12&12 Step Four, p.49  
All these failings generate fear, a soul-sickness in its own right.


14.
View TRADITION ONE essay   ... fear, and despair, and even the death ...   12&12 Tradition One, p.131  
And this they did find, in measure to transcend all the defects of their frail craft, every test of uncertainty, pain, fear, and despair, and even the death of one.


15.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear and direct our attention to what ...   BB How It Works, p.68  
We ask Him to remove our fear and direct our attention to what He would have us be.


16.
View TRADITION FOUR essay   ... fear and frustration fell over the group.   12&12 Tradition Four, p.149  
A chill chokedamp of fear and frustration fell over the group.


17.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear and inferiority about my fitness for ...   12&12 Step Four, p.51  
Did fear and inferiority about my fitness for my job destroy my confidence and fill me with conflict?


18.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... fear and reluctance to do this, that ...   12&12 Step Five, p.55  
So intense, though, is our fear and reluctance to do this, that many A.A.'s at first try to bypass Step Five.


19.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... fear and tension -- that makes for more ...   BB Into Action, p.73  


20.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... fear, anger, worry, self-pity, or foolish decisions.   BB Into Action, p.88  
We are then in much less danger of excitement, fear, anger, worry, self-pity, or foolish decisions.


21.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear beat him back every time he ...   12&12 Step Four, p.49  
Both his pride and his fear beat him back every time he tries to look within himself.


22.
View STEP EIGHT essay   ... fear conspired with pride to hinder our ...   12&12 Step Eight, p.79  
These were some of the ways in which fear conspired with pride to hinder our making a list of all the people we had harmed.


23.
View TRADITION EIGHT essay   ... fear, fear which today has been largely ...   12&12 Tradition Eight, p.167  
But when we had declared that our Fellowship couldn't hire service workers nor could any A.A. member carry our knowledge into other fields, we were taking the counsel of fear, fear which today has been largely dispelled in the light of experience.


24.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear, frustration, and depression.   12&12 Step Four, p.44  
We have drunk to drown feelings of fear, frustration, and depression.


25.
View STEP ELEVEN essay   ... fear, frustration, or misunderstanding, and permit us ...   12&12 Step Eleven, p.103  
Just saying it over and over will often enable us to clear a channel choked up with anger, fear, frustration, or misunderstanding, and permit us to return to the surest help of all -- our search for God's will, not our own, in the moment of stress.


26.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear, greed, possessiveness, and pride have too ...   12&12 Step Four, p.51  
In these areas fear, greed, possessiveness, and pride have too often done their worst.


27.
View A VISION FOR YOU chapter   Fear gripped him.   BB A Vision For You, p.154  
Fear gripped him.


28.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear, in turn, generates more character defects.   12&12 Step Four, p.49  
Then fear, in turn, generates more character defects.


29.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... "fear" is bracketed alongside the difficulties with ...   BB How It Works, p.67  
Notice that the word "fear" is bracketed alongside the difficulties with Mr. Brown, Mrs. Jones, the employer, and the wife.


30.
View STEP TEN essay   ... fear, jealousy, and the like.   12&12 Step Ten, p.88  
That is the emotional hangover, the direct result of yesterday's and sometimes today's excesses of negative emotion -- anger, fear, jealousy, and the like.


31.
View STEP TEN essay   ... fear nor favor, we can truly thank ...   12&12 Step Ten, p.95  
Having so considered our day, not omitting to take due note of things well done, and having searched our hearts with neither fear nor favor, we can truly thank God for the blessings we have received and sleep in good conscience.


32.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... fear of creditors no matter how far ...   BB Into Action, p.78  
We must lose our fear of creditors no matter how far we have to go, for we are liable to drink if we are afraid to face them.


33.
View DOCTOR BOB'S NIGHTMARE story   ... fear of making a scene should I ...   BB Doctor Bob's Nightmare, p.173  
Many mornings I have gone to classes, and even though fully prepared, would turn and walk back to the fraternity house because of my jitters, not daring to enter the classroom for fear of making a scene should I be called on for recitation.


34.
View DOCTOR BOB'S NIGHTMARE story   ... fear of not sleeping, and the other ...   BB Doctor Bob's Nightmare, p.175  
One was the fear of not sleeping, and the other was the fear of running out of liquor.


35.
View INTO ACTION chapter   Fear of people and of economic insecurity ...   BB Into Action, p.84  
Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us.


36.
View DOCTOR BOB'S NIGHTMARE story   ... fear of running out of liquor.   BB Doctor Bob's Nightmare, p.175  
One was the fear of not sleeping, and the other was the fear of running out of liquor.


37.
View TRADITION TWELVE essay   ... fear of the alcoholic stigma, and spread ...   12&12 Tradition Twelve, p.186  
These quiet disclosures helped him to lose his fear of the alcoholic stigma, and spread the news of A.A.'s existence in his community.


38.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... fear of the next debauch; the mother ...   BB To Wives, p.104  
But for every man who drinks others are involved -- the wife who trembles in fear of the next debauch; the mother and father who see their son wasting away.


39.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear of this sort turn out to ...   12&12 Step Four, p.49  
But the testimony of A.A.'s who have really tried a moral inventory is that pride and fear of this sort turn out to be bogeymen, nothing else.


40.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear of today, tomorrow or the hereafter.   BB How It Works, p.63  
As we felt new power flow in, as we enjoyed peace of mind, as we discovered we could face life successfully, as we became conscious of His presence, we began to lose our fear of today, tomorrow or the hereafter.

View STEP TEN essay   ... fear or hate anybody, has to be ...   12&12 Step Ten, p.93  
The idea that we can be possessively loving of a few, can ignore the many, and can continue to fear or hate anybody, has to be abandoned, if only a little at a time.


42.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... fear or intolerance may lessen your husband's ...   BB To Wives, p.120  
The slightest sign of fear or intolerance may lessen your husband's chance of recovery.

View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear ought to be classed with stealing.   BB How It Works, p.68  


44.
View STEP SEVEN essay   ... fear pain less, and desire humility more ...   12&12 Step Seven, p.75  
We began to fear pain less, and desire humility more than ever.


45.
View STEP SEVEN essay   ... fear -- primarily fear that we would lose ...   12&12 Step Seven, p.76  
The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear -- primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded.


46.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear problem, or any other.   BB How It Works, p.68  
Some of us once had great self-confidence, but it didn't fully solve the fear problem, or any other.


47.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... Fear says, "You dare not look!"   12&12 Step Four, p.49  


48.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... (fear); security.   BB How It Works, p.65  
My employer -- unreasonable, unjust, overbearing; threatens to fire me for drinking and padding my expense account -- self esteem (fear); security.


49.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step ...   BB How It Works, p.62  
Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate.

View STEP FIVE essay   ... fear, self-pity, and hurt feelings, it was ...   12&12 Step Five, p.59  


51.
View BILL'S STORY chapter   Fear sobered me for a bit.   BB Bill's Story, p.8  
Fear sobered me for a bit.


52.
View STEP THREE essay   ... fear, society breaking up into warring fragments.   12&12 Step Three, p.37  


53.
View FOREWORD TO SECOND EDITION   ... fear that he might start drinking again.   BB Foreword to Second Edition, p.xvi  
The broker had gone to Akron on a business venture which had collapsed, leaving him greatly in fear that he might start drinking again.


54.
View TRADITION TWELVE essay   ... fear that large numbers of incoming people ...   12&12 Tradition Twelve, p.184  


55.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... fear that our instincts will not be ...   12&12 Step Four, p.49  


56.
View STEP SEVEN essay   ... fear that we would lose something we ...   12&12 Step Seven, p.76  
The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear -- primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded.


57.
View TRADITION THREE essay   ... fear the true basis of intolerance?   12&12 Tradition Three, p.140  


58.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... fear; they only thought they had humbled ...   BB Into Action, p.73  
They only thought they had lost their egoism and fear; they only thought they had humbled themselves.


59.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... fear was more important than freedom from ...   12&12 Step Twelve, p.122  
We found that freedom from fear was more important than freedom from want.


60.
View WE AGNOSTICS chapter   ... fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem ...   BB We Agnostics, p.52  
We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn't control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn't make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem to be of real help to other people -- was not a basic solution of these bedevilments more important than whether we should see newsreels of lunar flight?


61.
View TRADITION EIGHT essay   ... fear which today has been largely dispelled ...   12&12 Tradition Eight, p.167  
But when we had declared that our Fellowship couldn't hire service workers nor could any A.A. member carry our knowledge into other fields, we were taking the counsel of fear, fear which today has been largely dispelled in the light of experience.


62.
View TRADITION EIGHT essay   ... fear will always lurk in every A.A. ...   12&12 Tradition Eight, p.169  


63.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... fear, worry and hurt feelings is a ...   BB To Wives, p.116  
When we do that, we find it solves our problems too; the ensuing lack of fear, worry and hurt feelings is a wonderful thing.





Source: http://www.164andmore.com/words/fear.htm

The word "SPONSOR" appears 13 times in the AA book "12 and 12"

The word "SPONSOR" appears 13 times in the AA book "12 Steps and 12 Traditions"


1.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... sponsor already has the advantage of knowing ...   12&12 Step Five, p.61  


2.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... sponsor, but not necessarily so.   12&12 Step Five, p.61  
This person may turn out to be one's sponsor, but not necessarily so.


3.
View STEP TWO essay   ... sponsor continues, "Take, for example, my own ...   12&12 Step Two, p.26  
The sponsor continues, "Take, for example, my own case.


4.
View TRADITION TWELVE essay   ... sponsor's ear alone.   12&12 Tradition Twelve, p.185  


5.
View STEP TWO essay   ... sponsor, "is a very good question indeed.   12&12 Step Two, p.26  
"That," agrees the sponsor, "is a very good question indeed.


6.
View STEP NINE essay   ... sponsor or spiritual adviser, earnestly asking God's ...   12&12 Step Nine, p.86  
Do we lay the matter before our sponsor or spiritual adviser, earnestly asking God's help and guidance -- meanwhile resolving to do the right thing when it becomes clear, cost what it may?


7.
View STEP TEN essay   ... sponsor or spiritual adviser, we make a ...   12&12 Step Ten, p.89  
Then there are those occasions when alone, or in the company of our sponsor or spiritual adviser, we make a careful review of our progress since the last time.


8.
View STEP THREE essay   ... sponsor points out that our friend's life ...   12&12 Step Three, p.39  
Of course the sponsor points out that our friend's life is still unmanageable even though he is sober, that after all, only a bare start on A.A.'s program has been made.


9.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... sponsor probably points out that the newcomer ...   12&12 Step Four, p.46  
The sponsor probably points out that the newcomer has some assets which can be noted along with his liabilities.


10.
View STEP TWO essay   ... sponsor probably says, "Take it easy.   12&12 Step Two, p.26  
His sponsor probably says, "Take it easy.


11.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... sponsor promptly proves by talking freely and ...   12&12 Step Four, p.46  
This the sponsor promptly proves by talking freely and easily, and without exhibitionism, about his own defects, past and present.


12.
View TRADITION FIVE essay   ... sponsor sold me one idea, and that ...   12&12 Tradition Five, p.154  


13.
View STEP TWO essay   ... sponsor usually laughs.   12&12 Step Two, p.26  
At this juncture, his A.A. sponsor usually laughs. 
While the word "SPONSORS" appears 6 times in the AA big "12 Steps and 12 Traditions" 
Source : http://www.164andmore.com/words/sponsors.htm

1.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... sponsors?   12&12 Step Twelve, p.112  
Can we have the same kind of confidence and faith in these people who have been infected and sometimes crippled by our own illness that we have in our sponsors?


2.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... sponsors come to the rescue.   12&12 Step Four, p.46  
At this stage of the inventory proceedings, our sponsors come to the rescue.


3.
View STEP ONE essay   ... sponsors declared that we were the victims ...   12&12 Step One, p.22  
Our sponsors declared that we were the victims of a mental obsession so subtly powerful that no amount of human willpower could break it.


4.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... sponsors of those who feel they need ...   12&12 Step Four, p.46  
The sponsors of those who feel they need no inventory are confronted with quite another problem.


5.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... sponsors or spiritual advisers that we first ...   12&12 Step Five, p.58  


6.
View STEP ONE essay   ... sponsors pointed out our increasing sensitivity to ...   12&12 Step One, p.22  
Source : http://www.164andmore.com/words/sponsor.htm

The word RECOVERED appears 20 times in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous


The word "RECOVERED" appears 20 times in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Contrary to this a few members who believe more in hearsay rather than depend on the AA literature, propagate a myth that "an alcoholic never "RECOVERS" and that Alcoholics should always refer to themselves as "RECOVERING ALCOHOLICS", which in itself is a wrong statement.


While it is true that there is NO CURE for Alcoholism, But it is 'TREATABLE", In the chapter "How it Works" it is explained that "Rarely has a person failed, who has thoroughly followed our path.


The second page of the Big Book, Third Edition, soft cover (the page before the "Contents" page, reads specifically as "ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS - The story of How Many Thousands of Men and Women Have RECOVERED from Alcoholism - Third Edition.


If you suffer from Alcoholism, You can Recover, there is a way. That way is the AA 12 step program, get a sponsor, work the 12 steps with the sponsor as suggested in the Big Book and not the 12 steps as interpreted by the personal opinions of others who are basically deviating from the Basic concepts as suggested in the Big Book (One cannot really blame these members, this is a global phenomenon and not restricted to any part of the world, these ill-informed members are merely acting on hearsay, myths and not on what the Big Book says, to such members I merely say, just look at the Big Book when in doubt, all the answers can be found there. Lets just follow what the Big book says, and we cant go wrong!, lets not depend on members personal or perceived opinions and trust more in the wisdom of the founding fathers Bill W and Dr. Bob as they put down specifically in the Big Big!}

Off course if you are an Alcoholic, then one can never ever drink alcohol again, Complete abstinence is required. "Recovered" does not mean that one has been "Cured" of Alcoholism. If we work the 12 steps with a sponsor and follow the AA program as suggested in the Big Book, it is considered as we being a "RECOVERED ALCOHOLIC", being sober one day at a time, staying away from alcohol and having faith in a Power greater than ourselves. Till we do not complete doing the 12 steps we are considered as "Recovering Alcoholics", once we do the 12 steps, we are considered as "Recovered Alcoholics", its that simple! this is also explained in the Back to basics video - Step 1, 2 and 3 in my blog post.


Below are the references to the word "Recovered" in the Alcoholics Anonymous - Big Book

from http://www.164andmore.com/words/recovered.htm

1.
View THE DOCTOR'S OPINION   ... recovered.   BB The Doctor's Opinion, p.xxv  
This man and over one hundred others appear to have recovered.


2.
View THERE IS A SOLUTION chapter   ... recovered.   BB There Is A Solution, p.17  
Nearly all have recovered.


3.
View THERE IS A SOLUTION chapter   ... recovered.   BB There Is A Solution, p.29  


4.
View WORKING WITH OTHERS chapter   ... recovered.   BB Working With Others, p.90  
If he says yes, then his attention should be drawn to you as a person who has recovered.


5.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... recovered.   BB To Wives, p.113  
He knows that thousands of men, much like himself, have recovered.


6.
View FOREWORD TO SECOND EDITION   ... recovered alcoholics.   BB Foreword to Second Edition, p.xv  
In that brief space, Alcoholics Anonymous has mushroomed into nearly 6,000 groups whose membership is far above 150,000 recovered alcoholics.


7.
View FOREWORD   ... recovered alcoholics carried their message to still ...   12&12 Foreword, p.17  
With the publication of the book "Alcoholics Anonymous" in 1939, the pioneering period ended and a prodigious chain reaction set in as the recovered alcoholics carried their message to still others.


8.
View THE FAMILY AFTERWARD chapter   ... recovered, and have been given the power ...   BB The Family Afterward, p.132  
We have recovered, and have been given the power to help others.


9.
View TO EMPLOYERS chapter   ... recovered, but holds a relatively unimportant job, ...   BB To Employers, p.146  
An alcoholic who has recovered, but holds a relatively unimportant job, can talk to a man with a better position.


10.
View THE DOCTOR'S OPINION   ... recovered from a gastric hemorrhage and seemed ...   BB The Doctor's Opinion, p.xxxi  
He had but partially recovered from a gastric hemorrhage and seemed to be a case of pathological mental deterioration.


11.
View THERE IS A SOLUTION chapter   ... recovered from a hopeless condition of mind ...   BB There Is A Solution, p.20  


12.
View FOREWORD TO FIRST EDITION   ... recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of ...   BB Foreword to First Edition, p.xiii  
We, of Alcoholics Anonymous, are more than one hundred men and women who have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body.


13.
View THE FAMILY AFTERWARD chapter   ... recovered from serious drinking, are miracles of ...   BB The Family Afterward, p.133  
We, who have recovered from serious drinking, are miracles of mental health.


14.
View FOREWORD TO SECOND EDITION   ... recovered immediately and became A.A. number three.   BB Foreword to Second Edition, p.xvii  
Their very first case, a desperate one, recovered immediately and became A.A. number three.


15.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... recovered in A.A., they can become the ...   12&12 Step Twelve, p.112  
And if these are facts of life for the many alcoholics who have recovered in A.A., they can become the facts of life for many more.


16.
View FOREWORD TO FIRST EDITION   ... recovered is the main purpose of this ...   BB Foreword to First Edition, p.xiii  
To show other alcoholics precisely how we have recovered is the main purpose of this book.


17.
View WE AGNOSTICS chapter   ... recovered long ago.   BB We Agnostics, p.45  
If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were sufficient to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago.


18.
View WORKING WITH OTHERS chapter   ... recovered, of their chance.   BB Working With Others, p.96  
He often says that if he had continued to work on them, he might have deprived many others, who have since recovered, of their chance.


19.
View STEP ONE essay   ... recovered on their own resources.   12&12 Step One, p.22  
It was a statistical fact that alcoholics almost never recovered on their own resources.


20.
View FOREWORD   ... recovered through A.A.   12&12 Foreword (Note), p.15  
(*) In 2014, it is estimated that over two million have recovered through A.A.


The word "RECOVERING" appears only twice in the Big Book.... 
Source: http://www.164andmore.com/words/recovering.htm

1.
View THE FAMILY AFTERWARD chapter   ... recovering.   BB The Family Afterward, p.122  
Our women folk have suggested certain attitudes a wife may take with the husband who is recovering.


2.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... recovering in A.A.   BB To Wives (Note), p.104  
But many of the suggestions given here may be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic -- whether she is still drinking or is recovering in A.A.
So my friend please do not loose heart, You CAN "RECOVER" from Alcoholism.., provided you follow the AA program...as per the Big Book (Just go by the Literature and you will be fine!... there are many many AA members who go by the book and who will be glad and really grateful to guide you in your recovery process... Wish you all the best!.

 

Monday, 9 November 2015

The 12 Promises of Alcoholics Anonymous

The 12 Promises of Alcoholics Anonymous

If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before 
we are half way through.

(1) We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.
(2) We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.
(3) We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace.
(4) No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can 
      benefit others.
(5) That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear.
(6) We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows.
(7) Self-seeking will slip away.
(8) Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change.
(9) Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us.
(10) We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us.
(11) We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.
(12) Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us—
       sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them.

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